Two weeks into 2024! Thank you god for the gift of life. Happy New Year if you’re a returning reader, and welcome if you’re new to SHUBOX. As the pages of my life turned from the chilly months of November and December to the blooming days of a New Year this January, a new chapter began—one filled with unexpected twists, personal growth, and a renewed passion for advocacy and storytelling. In this third installment of my blogging saga, join me as I navigate through the last two months of 2023, embracing change and diving headfirst into accepting the power of manifestation.
For a while now, I have dreamed of a job that would take me all over the world, one where my life was almost always on the road, it’s now or never because give or take in less than 5 years I hope I’ll be married, with Children raising a family and being a present mum is very important to me. I took on this new job in August I wasn’t sure of it at first because it’s in an industry I had previously run away from most of my life. I wanted to be brave like a soldier this time, to take risks because to believe opportunity is to also believe in the opposite, wish is risk. God blessed me and I only pray I become just as equal of a blessing to my new work space. I can’t write in detail at the moment what this new job fully entails but in time the world will hopefully know and if you already know, pray for me please to succeed and never change for nothing or no one. I’m finally getting a hang of this, and I really looking forward to learning from my boss and everyone at the office. I never imaged I’d ever call someone my boss again, but I belive in her so much and I’m here to serve.
I found myself at the crossroads of destiny and desire. It was a time of transition, a period marked by the anticipation of a new job—a role I had manifested in the corridors of my imagination. Little did I know that this journey would not only redefine my career path but also intertwine with the solemnity of Remembrance Day in Nigeria.
As I stepped into the realm of manifestation, fueled by ambition and a fervent belief in the law of attraction, I imagined a job that would bring fulfillment, challenge, and perhaps a touch of wanderlust. The universe, with its mysterious ways, answered my call, presenting me with an opportunity that seemed tailor-made for my aspirations. Excitement coursed through my veins as I embarked on this new professional chapter, envisioning a path lined with accomplishments and personal growth.
However, reality, as it often does, unveiled itself with unexpected twists and turns. The job I had manifested bore little resemblance to the reality that unfolded. What I thought would be a straightforward journey turned out to be a rollercoaster of surprises, unveiling facets of the professional landscape I had never imagined. Yet, within the labyrinth of challenges, I am discovering opportunities for learning, adaptability, and resilience. As the days unfolded, each one bringing its own set of surprises, I found solace in the keyboard and the blank canvas of my blog. Here, amidst the pixels and paragraphs, I am weaving the narrative of my evolving reality—the juxtaposition of dreams and the nuances of the professional realm. It is a story that echoed the cadence of Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s tales, where the ordinary became extraordinary through the lens of introspection.
And now today is Remembrance Day in Nigeria, a day of solemn reflection and homage to the brave souls who had laid down their lives in service to our nation. The juxtaposition of this poignant day with my journey is both poignant and surreal. The sacrifices made by the Nigerian Armed Forces, and their unwavering commitment to duty, mirrored the resilience I sought to embody in the face of professional uncertainties.
In the heart of Africa, Nigeria’s Armed Forces stand tall, not only as defenders of their homeland but also as contributors to peace and stability across the continent. One cannot help but marvel at the enduring strength of this country, starting with the Nigerian military, a force that has left an indelible mark on the pages of African history. One shining example of Nigeria’s commitment to regional peace is its contribution to various United Nations peacekeeping missions. Nigerian troops have played pivotal roles in countries like Sierra Leone, Liberia, and Sudan, where they have helped restore order, facilitate humanitarian efforts, and rebuild nations torn apart by conflict.
In Sierra Leone during the late ’90s, Nigerian forces were instrumental in bringing an end to a brutal civil war, demonstrating not only military prowess but also a commitment to the well-being of the affected communities. Their efforts in Liberia, particularly during the early 2000s, contributed significantly to stabilising the region and fostering an environment conducive to recovery. Nigeria’s involvement in the United Nations–African Union Mission in Darfur (UNAMID) further underscores its dedication to peacekeeping. Most recently, the Nigerian army has had a notable high number of successful rescue missions. One of the best ways to honour our fallen heroes is to take care of their loved ones left behind. We should provide opportunities for their children and empower their widows. Last year, President Bola Tinubu launched the emblem for the 2024 Armed Forces Remembrance Day, while also approving ₦18 billion for the Group Life Assurance benefits and other entitlements for families of fallen heroes of the Nigerian Armed Forces. The Nigerian ministry deserves high command commendations on the efforts of troops in the various theatres of operation across the Country. I believe the media can do more for them. I acknowledge the media community for their partnership and continued cooperation with the military and other security agencies in their quest to return peace to our Country. Also, thank you fellow great and good Nigerians for your support given to the Armed Forces and security agencies in the conduct of their operations. I urge our public to continue to provide creditable information on criminals in various locality.
What I love more than my country is it’s people, it is people indeed who make up a country and not the country who makes it’s people. It’s time Nigerian Youths to position yourselves because any moment from now, an opportunity may present itself and I need us to be ready when that time presents itself. I know some, if not most of our leader may still seem like a disappointment, but don’t loose hope, get involved, ask questions and be brave enough to try to make peace, participate in politics and create great impact. Rome wasn’t built in a day and considering the size of our population, we truly need more like-mind making decisions at the top level for our country to thrive, no just survive.
As I stood amidst the echoes of remembrance day, I realised that my own journey mirrored the spirit of the day – where unexpected challenges became the crucible for personal growth and the forging of an indomitable spirit. The twists of reality, the uncharted paths, became the very threads that embroidered the tapestry of my evolving narrative. In the grand tapestry of life, where threads of aspiration, reality, and remembrance intersect, I found a resonance that transcended the ordinary. Today, as I reflect on the convergence of job manifestations and the twists of reality, I celebrate the journey – a journey that, like Remembrance Day, speaks of courage, resilience, and the enduring spirit that defines both personal and collective narratives.
